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Posted on: Sep 25 2011, 04:41 PM |
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Ok so my original post seems to have sparked a lot of posts and thanks to those who have offered advice. I would like to point out she would have accepted the b&b but it was in slough and she couldn't afford the extra petrol to get to work. Anyway the good news is I have found a friend who will rent her room for a couple of months so fingers crossed she will be able to use this time to find a more permanent home. Sorry Xjay1337 but she won't be sharing a bed now but again thanks for the offer |
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Posted on: Sep 23 2011, 02:45 PM |
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QUOTE (Biker1 @ Sep 23 2011, 02:59 PM) Is this a new use for the forum then? I think, if anyone who falls on hard times (whether their fault or not) comes begging to a newspaper discussion forum then I think it may become a little clogged. I am struggling a bit at the moment, 2 kids at uni, pay cut, fuel bills going up, food bills going up, getting less for my taxes etc. Anyone help?? No I was asking if anyone knew how to help. Lots of people must have been or know people in similar situations and maybe someone knew where to get advise / help. Where has the begging come into it? I though that was what forums were for? seeking advice and discussing topics? Obviously this one is mainly about taking the p**s out of people. If you dont like the topic, why comment? |
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Posted on: Sep 23 2011, 07:35 AM |
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QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 11:58 PM) If Simon really cared for his friend he would let her stay at his house and stop making excuses and passing blame. As this is the third time you have suggested this to me (don't know why I didn't think of it myself) I thought I would reply I wish I could help, but a) I don't have the room in my house, im expecting my first baby any week now c) my origional thought was why the **** do we as taxpayers fork out for council housing all our lives and then really struggle to get help if/when we need it All she wants is a little help and not unhelpful comments |
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Posted on: Sep 23 2011, 06:50 AM |
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QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 11:58 PM) If Simon really cared for his friend he would let her stay at his house and stop making excuses and passing blame. Cheers for your helpful advise vodabury!!!! But a genuine thank you to those who have offered suggestions and Richard, she will be in touch today - thank you And for those mocking why she doesn't want shared bathrooms, it's nothing about being snobby, just the fact she needs the toilet about every two hours and doesn't feel safe walking down a corridor at night on her own |
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Posted on: Sep 22 2011, 09:01 PM |
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QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 09:55 PM) If she has been paying council tax on a property, then I wonder why she is suddenly homeless.
Again, can't you put her up for a bit till she gets sorted?
Thanks She is homeless as it was her boyfriends house, and unfortunately I am not in a situation to have her stay at mine The more I am finding out about how many people need housing the scarier it gets. I have been very naive and assumed that if you needed housing you got it, as according to the media, every jobless, druggie, immigrant has a council house |
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Posted on: Sep 22 2011, 08:43 PM |
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QUOTE (On the edge @ Sep 22 2011, 09:06 PM) The CAB might be able to offer some practical advice and would certainly know of contacts who could offer real help. I know someone in a not too dissimilar predicament they at least steered in a good direction. Hope she can get some relief from her troubles soon. She has been to the CAB but not much luck. The council seem to be only offering her the halfway house or the b&b in slough Hopefully something will happen for her |
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Posted on: Sep 22 2011, 08:41 PM |
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QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 09:03 PM) I do not see how the Council (council tax payer) has let you or her down - as your post title suggests. I believe the council has let her down by not being able to find her decent accommodation especially considering she has paid both tax and council tax for many many years. I would have hoped that as a tax payer, I would be looked after if I hit a rough patch. So many other people seem to be able to get housing provided for them |
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Posted on: Aug 18 2011, 02:43 PM |
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QUOTE (JeffG @ Aug 18 2011, 03:30 PM) Seriously? The tax payer should fund those that decide to stay at home? (Which used to be the norm in any case.) Why not? The mother would have been paying her fair share in tax, and chances are the father would have been too I think we should be promoting mums to stay home with their children, especially the first As a working couple, myself and my wife do not qualify for any any help from the government at all and are about to lose a large chunk of my wifes wages and like all the other working parents, this is going to put financial pressure on us, My wife and I have been paying taxes for around 16 years now and it would be nice to have something back. There seems to be no rewards for the hard working people of this country, just taxes and taxes and taxes |
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