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Simon Kirby
post Feb 2 2013, 12:59 PM
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MPs vote next week on Gay Marriage - see the bill. It's a free vote so MPs will be voting with their conscience and not along party lines.

The act will give same-sex couples some of the same rights to marry as those enjoyed by opposite-sex couples, but intolerant religious groups will still be free to discriminate against gay couples who want to marry in their buildings, and the Church of England specifically will not be free to host a gay wedding even if the parish priest wanted to.

Dear Mr. Benyon

I'm married, and have been for the last 26 years. My marriage, and the public celebration of the committment that it signifies, has and will always be the single most significant act of my life. I can't imagine how intolerable it must be for other couples to be denied that same recognition of their love and committment for no better reason than their common gender.

I'm not happy that the discriminatory views of the religious have been protected in the Bill. No one has supernatural authority for their point of view, and this debate has made it clear to me that the disestablishment of the Church of England is well overdue.

Please support the Bill.


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post Feb 2 2013, 10:17 PM
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Lets just follow the French example, all marriage is in effect civil, at the town hall. If you want anything else, that's up to you/


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post Feb 2 2013, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE (On the edge @ Feb 2 2013, 10:17 PM) *
Lets just follow the French example, all marriage is in effect civil, at the town hall. If you want anything else, that's up to you/



Indeed, and a jolly good system it is too!

What is of more concern is that we were promised tax breaks for married couples in the Consrvative manifesto, that has now gone the way of all such promises in favour of an incredible amount of parliamentry time in pushing through the gay marriage bill, all so the goverment can woo the 'pink voter' and show the electorate just how jolly well in touch they are with modern Britain in the hope of seeming to be 'right on'.

Very few conservatives welcolm this diversionary tactic in the middle of one of the worst financial crisis suffered in living memory. Froth and Bubbles as dear Pater use to say.


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post Feb 3 2013, 12:40 PM
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QUOTE (Turin Machine @ Feb 2 2013, 11:24 PM) *
Indeed, and a jolly good system it is too!

What is of more concern is that we were promised tax breaks for married couples in the Consrvative manifesto, that has now gone the way of all such promises in favour of an incredible amount of parliamentry time in pushing through the gay marriage bill, all so the goverment can woo the 'pink voter' and show the electorate just how jolly well in touch they are with modern Britain in the hope of seeming to be 'right on'.

Very few conservatives welcolm this diversionary tactic in the middle of one of the worst financial crisis suffered in living memory. Froth and Bubbles as dear Pater use to say.


If a hetro couple want to get married in a religious environment then they can shop around. I would bet that 90% of the couples that are married don't go near a church during their day to day life and that like divorced persons, particularly Roman Catholics, then there are establishments where they cannot marry. As for gay marriages or gay civil partnerships, if that's what they want then that's fine. If the CofE or the Catholic church want out of the loop, then that's fine as well as far as I'm concerned. If it's infringing the rights of the gay couple by refusing them, it's also infringing the rights of the priest who is duty bound but not morally bound to conduct the ceremony.
If there are religious grounds, that are within their interpretation of their Bible, or whatever else they use, then that should be a strong enough reason for the community to stand back. Other religious groups interpret things differently and we uphold their personal difference. For example the Jehova's Witnesses who do not believe that they should accept blood. The only time the law might intervene is if a child is involved.
As you say, the government blowing smoke. I think gay partnerships are fine as it doesn't bother or affect me but I am a bit uncomfortable with gay adoption, but another subject no doubt and for which we may expect some discriminatory legislation.
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- Simon Kirby   Gay Marriage   Feb 2 2013, 12:59 PM
- - NWNREADER   I am ambivalent, but mystified as to the haste wit...   Feb 2 2013, 01:06 PM
- - Strafin   It's ridiculous, it is an affront to a free so...   Feb 2 2013, 03:20 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 2 2013, 03:20 PM) It...   Feb 2 2013, 03:52 PM
- - Strafin   Yes, by forcing private groups and individuals to ...   Feb 2 2013, 04:18 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 2 2013, 04:18 PM) Ye...   Feb 2 2013, 04:31 PM
- - Strafin   I don't believe it is discrimination.   Feb 2 2013, 04:19 PM
- - Strafin   I don't believe it is discrimination.   Feb 2 2013, 04:19 PM
- - NWNREADER   Neither do I. There are very few, if any, benefit...   Feb 2 2013, 04:36 PM
- - Strafin   But "marriage" and the term "marria...   Feb 2 2013, 04:39 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 2 2013, 04:39 PM) Bu...   Feb 2 2013, 05:11 PM
- - NWNREADER   The lawyers will get rich on all the extra divorce...   Feb 2 2013, 05:50 PM
- - motormad   Interesting topic. I think it boils down to, you ...   Feb 2 2013, 09:47 PM
|- - Strafin   I think you're missing the point slightly Simo...   Feb 2 2013, 10:07 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 2 2013, 10:07 PM) I ...   Feb 3 2013, 12:36 PM
- - lordtup   It is like the old adage of which came first the c...   Feb 3 2013, 01:16 PM
|- - On the edge   QUOTE (lordtup @ Feb 3 2013, 01:16 PM) It...   Feb 3 2013, 01:39 PM
||- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (On the edge @ Feb 3 2013, 01:39 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 02:37 PM
||- - Exhausted   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 3 2013, 02:37 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 03:26 PM
||- - On the edge   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 3 2013, 02:37 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 03:53 PM
|- - Squelchy   QUOTE (lordtup @ Feb 3 2013, 01:16 PM) It...   Feb 7 2013, 01:20 PM
- - Strafin   Is the any such thing as a common law marriage?   Feb 3 2013, 01:57 PM
|- - On the edge   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 3 2013, 01:57 PM) Is...   Feb 3 2013, 10:40 PM
- - Strafin   I don't think it does owe you the right to use...   Feb 3 2013, 03:27 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 3 2013, 03:27 PM) I ...   Feb 3 2013, 07:58 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   *D'oh!*   Feb 3 2013, 09:15 PM
|- - On the edge   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 3 2013, 07:58 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 09:37 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (On the edge @ Feb 3 2013, 09:37 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 09:55 PM
|- - On the edge   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 3 2013, 09:55 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 10:45 PM
- - Penelope   If gays want to get married then so what? Why sho...   Feb 3 2013, 05:13 PM
|- - lordtup   QUOTE (Penelope @ Feb 3 2013, 05:13 PM) I...   Feb 3 2013, 06:12 PM
|- - Penelope   QUOTE (lordtup @ Feb 3 2013, 06:12 PM) Pe...   Feb 3 2013, 06:16 PM
|- - lordtup   QUOTE (Penelope @ Feb 3 2013, 06:16 PM) N...   Feb 3 2013, 07:06 PM
|- - Penelope   QUOTE (lordtup @ Feb 3 2013, 07:06 PM) Ma...   Feb 3 2013, 09:20 PM
- - GMR   Does it matter who marries who? We are all free pe...   Feb 3 2013, 05:41 PM
- - Strafin   It's not discrimination though, I assume you...   Feb 3 2013, 08:41 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 3 2013, 08:41 PM) It...   Feb 3 2013, 09:13 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 3 2013, 08:41 PM) I ...   Feb 3 2013, 09:48 PM
- - On the edge   So, in a nut shell, wholly agree that these ancien...   Feb 3 2013, 09:52 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (On the edge @ Feb 3 2013, 09:52 PM...   Feb 3 2013, 10:20 PM
- - Strafin   Well I won't tick the gift aid box on any dona...   Feb 3 2013, 10:39 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 3 2013, 10:39 PM) We...   Feb 4 2013, 12:19 PM
- - Strafin   As much right as anybody else I guess, you seem to...   Feb 4 2013, 06:42 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 4 2013, 06:42 PM) As...   Feb 4 2013, 07:18 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 4 2013, 06:42 PM) I ...   Feb 4 2013, 07:36 PM
- - Strafin   The venue is unimportant. I object to same sex mar...   Feb 4 2013, 07:38 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 4 2013, 07:38 PM) Th...   Feb 4 2013, 07:49 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Strafin @ Feb 4 2013, 07:38 PM) Th...   Feb 4 2013, 07:51 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Andy Capp @ Feb 4 2013, 07:51 PM) ...   Feb 4 2013, 08:15 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 4 2013, 08:15 PM...   Feb 4 2013, 08:18 PM
- - JaneGibbs   I don't know what all the fuss is about. Why c...   Feb 4 2013, 07:52 PM
|- - motormad   QUOTE (JaneGibbs @ Feb 4 2013, 07:52 PM) ...   Feb 5 2013, 01:28 AM
|- - newres   QUOTE (motormad @ Feb 5 2013, 01:28 AM) B...   Feb 5 2013, 05:07 PM
- - On the edge   I for one can't see any secular why anyone not...   Feb 4 2013, 08:00 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (On the edge @ Feb 4 2013, 08:00 PM...   Feb 4 2013, 08:21 PM
|- - On the edge   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 4 2013, 08:21 PM...   Feb 4 2013, 09:52 PM
- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (On the edge @ Feb 4 2013, 08:00 PM...   Feb 4 2013, 08:15 PM
- - newres   I'm afraid that I am old fashioned too. Marria...   Feb 4 2013, 08:16 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (newres @ Feb 4 2013, 08:16 PM) I...   Feb 4 2013, 08:26 PM
- - Andy Capp   All that being said, I see it as a big load of old...   Feb 4 2013, 08:30 PM
- - Strafin   They'll be letting girls into the scout moveme...   Feb 4 2013, 09:23 PM
- - Rusty Bullet   Seems to me our M.P's are going about this all...   Feb 5 2013, 05:34 PM
|- - Turin Machine   QUOTE (Rusty Bullet @ Feb 5 2013, 05:34 ...   Feb 5 2013, 07:46 PM
- - desres123   seems to me that the mps have to much time on thei...   Feb 5 2013, 06:13 PM
- - Spider   Gay marriage, more women and black people in impor...   Feb 25 2013, 05:26 PM
- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Spider @ Feb 25 2013, 05:26 PM) Ga...   Feb 25 2013, 05:49 PM
|- - Spider   QUOTE (Simon Kirby @ Feb 25 2013, 05:49 P...   Feb 25 2013, 06:29 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Spider @ Feb 25 2013, 06:29 PM) We...   Feb 25 2013, 07:26 PM
|- - Simon Kirby   QUOTE (Spider @ Feb 25 2013, 06:29 PM) We...   Feb 25 2013, 07:40 PM
- - motormad   QUOTE (Spider @ Feb 25 2013, 05:26 PM) Ga...   Feb 25 2013, 07:48 PM


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