Why......... Options

[Blue]

do so many topics on here turn into point scoring and counter punching by the same few people?

I was really looking forward to taking part in debates (and some fun where appropriate) on here.............................

[wabbit]

I have to say I agree with Blue - this forum (and 'the other' one) do seem to attract some of Newbury's more argumentative, self-opinionated and prejudiced types. I don't personally think (and sincerely hope) that they don't represent the views and opinions of Newbury residents accurately because, if we are to be judged by some of the 'stuff' (I use the word advisedly) posted here, then Newbury is not a very pleasant place. I am thankful I don't live next door to most of the forum regulars!

Some 'refugees' from the other forum, who caused bother and upset there, have migrated here - some not even bothering to change their forum name, whilst others have re-invented themselves (and continue to do so) - hoping no-one will notice the idiosyncracies in their use of language. Some, it has to be said, appear to be completely fictional characters...

Any criticism, however mild (like Blue's) is always met by the usual 'chill out man' and 'everyone is entitled to their opinions' mantra thus halting any further criticism.

Of course everyone should be encouraged to express their own opinions but maybe the (apparent) aggression and prejudice does discourage those of a gentler manner from daring to be heard. And let's not hear any more of the 'if you can't stand the heat..' comments either!

As for the underlying misogyny which underpins many of the comments - e.g. female drivers have, very recently, been described as 'hideous' and 'ugly' (by two apparently different forum members) - it is any wonder that there is a massive imbalance in views here? If we want to hear from a more diverse group of people (with more interesting views), it may be that we need to think more carefully before posting unpleasantness!

I shall now wait for the (almost certain) attack....