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Simon
post Sep 22 2011, 06:29 PM
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A friend of mine is an english citizen, who has worked full time for over 10 years and has never claimed anything from the government before.

She has now hit a rough patch in her life and requires help but is not getting anything of what she needs.

She is 20 weeks pregnant and has just split from her boyfriend, she has no where to live and does not accrue enough points with council to get housing.

She has been offered a room at a b&b in slough (even though she works in Newbury) or a room at a half way house sharing bathroom facilities with the other guests. This place does not look or sound safe for her.

Does anyone know of way she could be helped or anyone else she can speak to?


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Strafin
post Sep 24 2011, 10:58 AM
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But this website is not representative of the people of Newbury, it's a small percentage of people who have an interest in local issues and like to vent their spleens. Why should they be charitable? And why should they not be allowed to put what they like, when others can. The piousness and intolerance always comes from those who think that anyone who disagrees with them is "right wing" and therefore deformed in some way and therefore not entitled to an opinion. All those exclaiming that this woman "must" be helped at all costs make me want to help less.
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Andy Capp
post Sep 24 2011, 11:14 AM
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QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 11:58 AM) *
But this website is not representative of the people of Newbury, it's a small percentage of people who have an interest in local issues and like to vent their spleens. Why should they be charitable? And why should they not be allowed to put what they like, when others can.

Did I say you should be charitable and shouldn't be allowed to say what you think? I think that a number of people's comments on here are simply uncharitable in spirit if not in practice. What is so hard about being kind natured, if not helpful?

QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 11:58 AM) *
The piousness and intolerance always comes from those who think that anyone who disagrees with them is "right wing" and therefore deformed in some way and therefore not entitled to an opinion.

I said that? Where? The rest was a joke.

QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 11:58 AM) *
All those exclaiming that this woman "must" be helped at all costs make me want to help less.

That is up to you and your conscience.

Like you said yourself, this is an area for posting opinions and comment and that is what I am doing. Frankly, I think some people's attitude on here embarrass Newbury if not southerners. But then this is a safe Tory seat; what else should I expect. tongue.gif

PS I admire Biker1 and his humility; he gets it.
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post Sep 24 2011, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE (Andy Capp @ Sep 24 2011, 12:14 PM) *
I said that? Where?


No you didn't say it, but it is the implication of various posts on this forum, in other subjects too. I did not mean to single you out personally.
I also think that most postings on here are the to the extremes of peoples genuine feelings, a text only view of everybody is kind of dehumanising. Finally I think that this is entirely the wrong place to be asking for help, however if you're desperate everything is worth a shot, I just don't think you shouuld get upset if you don't get the response you were after.
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- Simon   Help needed   Sep 22 2011, 06:29 PM
- - Vodabury   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 22 2011, 07:29 PM) A f...   Sep 22 2011, 08:03 PM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 09:03 PM) ...   Sep 22 2011, 08:41 PM
|- - Vodabury   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 22 2011, 09:41 PM) I b...   Sep 22 2011, 08:55 PM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 09:55 PM) ...   Sep 22 2011, 09:01 PM
|- - Rachel   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 22 2011, 09:01 PM) She...   Sep 22 2011, 09:19 PM
|- - Vodabury   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 22 2011, 10:01 PM) She...   Sep 22 2011, 09:25 PM
- - On the edge   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 22 2011, 07:29 PM) A f...   Sep 22 2011, 08:06 PM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (On the edge @ Sep 22 2011, 09:06 P...   Sep 22 2011, 08:43 PM
- - Turin Machine   I'm sorry , but you can't just magic housi...   Sep 22 2011, 08:49 PM
- - Andy Capp   Sadly, it is going to get worse before better.   Sep 22 2011, 09:14 PM
- - Richard Garvie   Pass on my details: 07411 488324 or email me their...   Sep 22 2011, 09:44 PM
- - Strafin   I am surprised that she can't get a house, whe...   Sep 22 2011, 10:03 PM
|- - Welshy   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 22 2011, 11:03 PM) I...   Sep 24 2011, 01:39 PM
|- - Lestat   @Strafin - for a 44 year old man I'm sure your...   Sep 24 2011, 02:12 PM
- - Turin Machine   Its possible, its also possible she's a victim...   Sep 22 2011, 10:12 PM
- - spartacus   'Help needed'...maybe ........but remind ...   Sep 22 2011, 10:25 PM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (spartacus @ Sep 22 2011, 11:25 PM)...   Sep 23 2011, 07:28 AM
- - Strafin   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 22 2011, 07:29 PM) She...   Sep 22 2011, 10:32 PM
- - Andy Capp   I pray that I don't fall on hard times, or hav...   Sep 22 2011, 10:33 PM
- - spartacus   QUOTE (Andy Capp @ Sep 22 2011, 11:33 PM)...   Sep 22 2011, 10:48 PM
|- - Vodabury   If Simon really cared for his friend he would let ...   Sep 22 2011, 10:58 PM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 11:58 PM) ...   Sep 23 2011, 06:50 AM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 22 2011, 11:58 PM) ...   Sep 23 2011, 07:35 AM
|- - Vodabury   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 23 2011, 08:35 AM) All...   Sep 23 2011, 08:17 AM
- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Andy Capp @ Sep 22 2011, 11:33 PM)...   Sep 22 2011, 10:59 PM
|- - Vodabury   All at peace   Sep 22 2011, 11:33 PM
- - Turin Machine   Ahhh, the tried and tested "samaritan" c...   Sep 22 2011, 11:37 PM
- - xjay1337   Interesting topic. If she's young and attracti...   Sep 23 2011, 12:34 AM
- - Andy1   Simon, this is always typical of the type of respo...   Sep 23 2011, 08:51 AM
|- - xjay1337   QUOTE (Andy1 @ Sep 23 2011, 09:51 AM) Sim...   Sep 23 2011, 10:00 AM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (xjay1337 @ Sep 23 2011, 11:00 AM) ...   Sep 23 2011, 10:37 AM
- - Biker1   Is this a new use for the forum then? I think, if...   Sep 23 2011, 01:59 PM
|- - Simon   QUOTE (Biker1 @ Sep 23 2011, 02:59 PM) Is...   Sep 23 2011, 02:45 PM
|- - Biker1   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 23 2011, 03:45 PM) No ...   Sep 23 2011, 03:28 PM
|- - Strafin   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 23 2011, 03:45 PM) I t...   Sep 23 2011, 11:01 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 12:01 AM) I...   Sep 24 2011, 07:54 AM
- - Blue   QUOTE (Simon @ Sep 23 2011, 03:45 PM) No ...   Sep 23 2011, 03:25 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 12:34 PM) N...   Sep 24 2011, 11:37 AM
- - Strafin   All the time, but I don't care that much, it i...   Sep 24 2011, 11:48 AM
- - spartacus   I don't.....   Sep 24 2011, 11:48 AM
- - Andy Capp   ...   Sep 24 2011, 11:51 AM
- - pinkfluffyclouds   After I married and became pregnant our landlord e...   Sep 24 2011, 01:10 PM
- - Strafin   My life has been far from perfect, if you go and r...   Sep 24 2011, 02:42 PM
|- - Lestat   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 03:42 PM) M...   Sep 24 2011, 03:04 PM
- - xjay1337   When I was forced out at 18, I had to pull my fing...   Sep 24 2011, 03:05 PM
|- - Lestat   Hooker lol, who u hang around with lol, yes I agr...   Sep 24 2011, 03:28 PM
- - Strafin   I think you need to try and understand what people...   Sep 24 2011, 03:59 PM
|- - Lestat   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 04:59 PM) I...   Sep 24 2011, 04:13 PM
- - Strafin   You are aware that the girl herself is not on this...   Sep 24 2011, 04:18 PM
|- - Lestat   Do you remember this statement? All those exclaim...   Sep 24 2011, 04:49 PM
|- - CBW137Y   I'm rather glad I don't live in Newbury an...   Sep 24 2011, 05:48 PM
- - xjay1337   Depending your age and cup size you could share mi...   Sep 24 2011, 05:54 PM
- - Lestat   Hi cb , congrats on the pregnancy, have u checked...   Sep 24 2011, 05:55 PM
|- - CBW137Y   xjay1337 - your comment is ignorant and childish. ...   Sep 24 2011, 05:58 PM
|- - xjay1337   QUOTE (CBW137Y @ Sep 24 2011, 06:58 PM) x...   Sep 24 2011, 06:04 PM
|- - Lestat   QUOTE (xjay1337 @ Sep 24 2011, 07:04 PM) ...   Sep 24 2011, 06:18 PM
|- - xjay1337   QUOTE (Lestat @ Sep 24 2011, 07:18 PM) An...   Sep 24 2011, 06:53 PM
|- - Lestat   QUOTE (xjay1337 @ Sep 24 2011, 07:53 PM) ...   Sep 24 2011, 06:56 PM
- - Turin Machine   I think all parties need to take a step back and g...   Sep 24 2011, 06:42 PM
- - Strafin   CBW - Sorry you're in a bad position but it...   Sep 24 2011, 06:43 PM
- - Strafin   And Turin machine is right. But I was typing while...   Sep 24 2011, 06:45 PM
|- - Lestat   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 07:45 PM) A...   Sep 24 2011, 06:53 PM
|- - Strafin   QUOTE (Lestat @ Sep 24 2011, 07:53 PM) An...   Sep 24 2011, 07:55 PM
|- - CBW137Y   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 08:55 PM) B...   Sep 24 2011, 08:03 PM
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|- - Lestat   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 24 2011, 08:55 PM) B...   Sep 24 2011, 08:14 PM
- - xjay1337   I'm not the desperate one, asking for rooms to...   Sep 24 2011, 07:07 PM
|- - Vodabury   OK, a lot being said here. May I just call a temp...   Sep 24 2011, 07:52 PM
|- - Strafin   QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 24 2011, 08:52 PM) ...   Sep 24 2011, 07:58 PM
|- - Vodabury   My apologies, I should have made clear that the co...   Sep 24 2011, 08:04 PM
|- - Andy Capp   QUOTE (Vodabury @ Sep 24 2011, 09:04 PM) ...   Sep 27 2011, 11:56 PM
- - Lestat   xjay1337 Yesterday, 01:34 AM Post #23 Advanced...   Sep 24 2011, 08:11 PM
- - xjay1337   That offer of a double bed was only to Simon. Not ...   Sep 24 2011, 08:14 PM
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- - xjay1337   Woah woah, again with taking things literally. It...   Sep 24 2011, 08:18 PM
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|- - Lestat   QUOTE (xjay1337 @ Sep 24 2011, 09:18 PM) ...   Sep 24 2011, 08:27 PM
|- - xjay1337   QUOTE (CBW137Y @ Sep 24 2011, 09:22 PM) I...   Sep 24 2011, 08:41 PM
|- - Lestat   I assumed you to be a guy as you were offering you...   Sep 24 2011, 08:52 PM
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- - Strafin   What's a pedal stool?   Sep 24 2011, 08:33 PM
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- - Strafin   Lestat - Perhaps you should go back to Oxford, try...   Sep 24 2011, 08:44 PM
- - CBW137Y   As much as I've 'enjoyed' this evening...   Sep 24 2011, 08:52 PM
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|- - Vodabury   QUOTE (Lestat @ Sep 24 2011, 10:05 PM) Le...   Sep 24 2011, 09:12 PM
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- - Simon   Ok so my original post seems to have sparked a lot...   Sep 25 2011, 04:41 PM
- - NWNREADER   Back to basics, I suspect some of the original ...   Sep 25 2011, 05:39 PM
- - Strafin   Whatever your views or opinions on the situation, ...   Sep 25 2011, 06:11 PM
|- - NWNREADER   QUOTE (Strafin @ Sep 25 2011, 07:11 PM) W...   Sep 25 2011, 06:12 PM
- - On the edge   Someone helped along the way - well done Simon .   Sep 25 2011, 06:53 PM


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