I think all parties need to take a step back and get their breath (and temper) back again, this is a public forum, not all comments made reflect the personality of the posters and sometimes we all like to let off a little steam.

CBW - Sorry you're in a bad position but it's your own fault and I'll be as judgemental as I like! I take it by using the term partner that you are not married? I wouldn't wish your predicament on anybody and hope that you manage to sort something out, but it is your fault, and you have been either really stupid or really naive. You do deserve a sympathetic ear and a little help as does any other human being who has been foolish, however you should also accept that some of us have a right to be disappointed that this has happened again. Sitting back and accepting all manner of promiscuous lifestyles is what has got our society into the state it is in now.

And Turin machine is right. But I was typing while he posted.

And how is it cb's fault may I ask, you must have lived a very simple life cause u have no clue bout modern day views, I'm guessing it's cb's fault she ended up alone and not the guy/fathers fault?

Obviously some people have a sense of humour failing. The OP laughed at a similar comment. This forum has too many whiny middle aged people who have grey hair and no sense of humour. The people who are whiny and grey haired with a sense of humour need not feel offended, for we are all friends.

Anyway, why would I want to date anyone who's even been to Newbury? Besides, perhaps I am already in a steady relationship.

and if you are your partner doesn't mind your desperation and fetish of pregnant women offering your double bed?

I'm not the desperate one, asking for rooms to rent on the NWN forums. Neither am I someone saying they're glad they're out of Newbury, asking people from Newbury if they have a room to rent. (logic#243.4 c~#failing> gotobash; EXPLODE)

Now I am neither desperate for random women nor do I have a fetish of pregnant women. In fact, ask anyone and I am the last person to chat up random women. I went out on a work doo and while some of the others were chatting up random girls, I didn't feel the need. It was simply a bit of dark humour. Now whether you find it funny or approve is neither relevant or of importance to me.

The important thing is that you don't take it as written fact, or as genuine offer. As mentioned (and conveniently skimmed over), a similar comment made before by myself which Simon, the OP, put a little smily face and said he would see what she said. Of course he wouldn't really ask her, but he saw the humour, which you seem to have failed to have done. (in otherwords you're miserable and need to lighten up, I have some Quavers I can post to you?)

You're also jumping to conclusions, I never said I had a double bed. (I do, but I didn't say that before).

OK, a lot being said here.

May I just call a temporary halt to proceedings and ask a couple of admin questions, please?

1. Is anyone else suspecting that there are posts on this forum, from 2 different identities, that are in fact coming from the same household?
2. Did anyone else read the post at 12:51 hours today by <Andy Capp> before it was deleted?

Thanks

Because CB got herself pregnant whilst in an unstable relationship, and without the means to support herself let alone someone else.

Wrong.

Not that it's any of your business, but my HUSBAND and I, whom I have been married to for a number of years and who works full time had planned the pregnancy. I had absolutely no idea whatsoever that he would walk out on me for reasons which I choose not to disclose here.

Again, as I stated earlier, one should not assume without knowing the facts. I was simply commenting that life sometimes throws an unexpected curve ball, and those who find themselves in such situations should in no way be judged automatically, as far too many on here and in general society seem to do.

My apologies, I should have made clear that the content was deleted, rather than the post itself.

Regards

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Interesting topic. If she's young and attractive she can stay at mine. I even have a double bed.


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So that was not your statement? Hmm I'm thinking you don't have a clue what you write on here and neither was you being humorous and no one was laughing

That offer of a double bed was only to Simon. Not to you/your friend. Besides you obviously felt it important enough to drag up. You certainly weren't laughing, but I don't mind. . Also see rest of my post regarding "not taking it seriously".

Also the wonders of using the quote tool..

You are right, it's not really my business, but you are posting on the internet, in an open public forum. And only disclosing "bits" of information, which will lead to speculation.

So your saying she got herself pregnant, and she was phsychic because she knew her ex was going to be an ***, carry on living in ur own cynical little word looking down on ppl from ur high pedal stool.

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That offer of a double bed was only to Simon. Not to you/your friend. Besides you obviously felt it important enough to drag up. You certainly weren't laughing, but I don't mind.

so you didn't offer your services to cb?
then I ask why she called u childish and arrogant? Hmmm

Woah woah, again with taking things literally. It's clear now that you are either a friend/relative (or have connected on E-harmony) with CWB and getting very...defensive.



Pedal stool?

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P.s. I don't actually know any of the other users on this site, that I am aware of. That said, Newbury's a small town so I may well have met some of the users without knowledge!

Too clear this up, I don't know anyone on here as I'm relatively new to this site, I moved from oxfordshire back in April, not that I'm expecting anyone to care, I'm just truly shocked at the disrespect the two pregnant ladies on this thread are getting, iv been brought up to respect women and all iv seen on this forum are disrepectful guys giving two women who only asked for advice negativity, is this what Berkshire guys are like, is it the water? Let me know cause I will stop drinking it.